A Mashpia for Generations

By Hershel Rosenbluh for Anash.org

The 19th of Iyar is the yahrtzeit of the mashpia Reb Shlomo Chaim Kesselman. He was born on 20 Elul 5654 and passed away on this day in 5731/1971.

Reb Shlomo Chaim was a legend who built generations. One can recognize a mekabel of Reb Shlomo Chaim by seeing how he learns, davens and carries himself 50, 60, even 70 years after leaving yeshivah. Appointed as a mashpia by the Rebbe Rashab, he continued his holy work through the entire nesius of the Frierdiker Rebbe and into the first 20 years of our Rebbe’s leadership. He had a rare gift for being able to fuse old and new; to him, avodas hatefilla and the avoda of Dor Hashvi’i were not mutually exclusive concepts, but two ideals that went hand in hand.

With Reb Shlomo Chaim, there was no generation gap. In spite of the age difference between him and the bochurim with whose chinuch he was entrusted in his later years, each bochur knew that no matter what he was going through, his mashpia would be able to relate. His door was always open, and his connection didn’t end once they left the yeshiva. Many yungeleit would continue confiding in and seeking guidance from him years after getting married.

Reb Meilach Zweibel shared the following teaching of Reb Shlomo Chaim: The Rebbe Rashab founded Tomchei Temimim for the sake of today’s bochurim. In the Rebbe Rashab’s time, Tomchei Temimim was like a tzukerke, a piece of candy that one would give to a child. It is no chiddush that the bochurim behaved as they should when they heard chassidus from the Rebbe Rashab every single week! Therefore, one must conclude that the temimim of Dor Hashvi’i were the the Rebbe Rashab’s tachlis hakavana, his ultimate goal.

During his days in Eretz Yisroel, many bochurim would come to Lod and Kfar Chabad from Litvishe yeshivos to experience farbrengens and chassidishe life. Reb Shlomo Chaim had a very strong influence on these bochurim, many of whom eventually joined Tomchei Temimim and became chassidim. Some of today’s most well known names in Lubavitch are from these groups of Litvishe bochurim who were shlepped in by Reb Shlomo Chaim.

At a farbrengen on Yud Tes Kislev, Reb Shlomo Chaim was speaking about the importance of being mekusher to the Rebbe. A visiting bochur from a Litvishe yeshiva challenged him, saying, “I learn Gemara and I’m mekusher to Abaye and Rovo!” The mashpia responded, “Yes, you can connect yourself to the great sages of the Gemara, but I’m not certain they’d want to be connected to you! The Rebbe is the nasi hador and would accept you as his mekusher.”

Reb Shlomo Chaim would say that a yid needs to learn from the yetzer hara. When it comes to an aveira, the yetzer hara doesn’t tell you to put it off until tomorrow, he urges you to do it right away! Similarly, when it comes to mitzvos and good hachlotos that we make, we must get to it right away, without delay.

It is interesting to note that Reb Shlomo Chaim felt strongly about the importance of Lag Baomer and always insisted on making the long trip to Meron. He encouraged the bochurim to make the effort to go to Rabi Shimon. He was niftar just one day after Lag Baomer.

From left: Reb Boruch Paris, the mechutan Reb Leibel Kahan, the chosson Reb Aron Tenenbaum and Reb Folle Kahan
Dancing with Reb Shaul Ber Zislin, his mashpia as a bochur.
At the wedding of his talmid Rabbi Dovid Meir Drukman, second right, on 7 Adar 5729/1969. Reb Chatzkel Sofer, left, and the mechutan Reb Zalman Bronshtein, right.
With the chosson Mordechai Tzvi Alpenbein
Receiving mashke from the Rebbe, 5730/1970.
With his talmidim, from left Reb Nachman Sudak and Reb Leibel Raskin, a”h.
With Reb Avrohom Mayorer, Reb Nochum Sasonkin and Reb Lazer Karasik
In the yeshiva in Lod

Photo Credits: ארכיון שניאור זלמן ברגר, חבדפדיה, ועוד

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