Comments on: Where is the Lubavitch Pride?

By: .

Wed, 10 Aug 2022 05:30:27 +0000

Having till the ear adds to the Tziur and makes it more Nikor that your a Yid

By: מקור

מקור — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 02:41:38 +0000

In reply to Yukel. מקור???

By: don't make up hergashim

don't make up hergashim — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 02:27:14 +0000

In reply to Mendel.

u can cut till the bone and with a machine #2 or#3 but u don’t have to leave it entirely

see halacha books,(for example להסתפר כהלכה- a chabad book) not stomach aches and for chassidish purposes see this link to this yuman 1st paragraph on page four

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1-9Yizo4tSeE2NxN7Rgw6Um3Jnvcr6Uu3/view

By: Yukel

Yukel — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 01:08:51 +0000

There is a letter to a family in South Africa who’s son was wild, the Rebbe answer was to grow his payos long. Whenever his payos we’re long they had no issues but when it was trimmed too short he would be wild again.

By: א בחור מיט פיאות

א בחור מיט פיאות — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 20:05:41 +0000

In reply to It's a clear sicha!. Thank you very much for bringing an extra makor I just want to be moyisif that this doesn’t mean that it should be till the bottom of your mouth because by then the vort of the Arizal is none existent but Al lol ponim to have a yidishe tzior kefi ration nesiei Chabad!

By: It's a clear sicha!

It's a clear sicha! — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 17:50:57 +0000

In the famous farbrengen of Simchas Torah 5715, the Rebbe mentions parents who try to make the peyos smaller and less obvious.

Here are the Rebbe’s own words as printed in Sichos Kodesh page נב:

“אויף אידן שטייט דאך “מלמד שהיו ישראל מצוינים שם” “שלא שינו את שמם לשונם ולבושם”, און צום סוף האם מען אין זיך ניט קיין תוקף און מען זוכט אלע תחבולות אבי עס זאל ניט זיין קענטיק אויפ’ן קינד אז ער איז א איד. האס ער פיאות פארקאטשעט מען אים די פיאות, אויב מען קאן ניט אפשערן אינגאנצן…

דארפן דארף זיין אז בשעת א אידישער אינגל גייט אין גאס דארף פון מיילן ווייט זיין קאנטיק אז עס גייט א איד, ווארום ישראל איז א שם המעלה ולבסוף שעמט מען זיך גאר דערמיט!

By: Mendel

Mendel — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 12:49:49 +0000

The frierdiker rebbe had long peios kipshutoi.
The rebbe did not, but put them behined the ear.
There is a common misconception that once you have a beard you can cut the peioys completely- this is actually assur!

By: Levi demrof

Levi demrof — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 11:23:28 +0000

Pulling out the beard… This habit brings to chilul shabbos too.

By: not to mix the payos with the beard

not to mix the payos with the beard — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 05:00:40 +0000

“not to mix the payos with the beard” can ONLY apply when you HAVE a beard.
Which most 3 to post-bar-mitzva age boys don’t. So what happened to their payos? Once the beard grows then the payos can be cut short. That’s what we were taught.

By: Another Bubby

Another Bubby — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 04:51:25 +0000

Every boy in my sons’ classes in the mem’s and early nun’s had noticeable payos.
Donno – after Gimmel Tamuz everything got shorter – payos, kapotas, skirts. Only sheitals got longer. Why?

By: So right

So right — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 03:43:20 +0000

This is very true! Some children and even bochurim have almost no peyos showing.

Truth to be told most do have proper peyos. It’s only a minority that doesn’t. But it’s good that you’re addressing it.

These kids from the mems (or early nuns) look very eidel.

By: Menachem

Menachem — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:50:10 +0000

In reply to 770bochur. No you’re repugnance to the fellows point seems to be a problem, not necessarily the problem.

By: Exactly

Exactly — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:12:20 +0000

In reply to don't make up hergashim. Here is what Rabbi Braun says there "The area of the peyos begins right above the apex of the ear at the hairline and across to the crown (the upper corner of the forehead), then back down to the bottom of the ear—these three lines creating the triangular area of the peyos."

By: Looking for source

Looking for source — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:08:16 +0000

Didn’t the Rebbe once say in Yechidus, till the end of the ear?
Can someone please comment the makor, and details. TY

By: Steven Mercer

Steven Mercer — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:07:13 +0000

I got so much criticism amd slack because my sons payos didn’t look like everyone else’s. Finally someone is addressing this. Thank you!

By: don't make up hergashim

don't make up hergashim — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:02:53 +0000

please don’t make up hergashim see-
https://www.halacha2go.com/php/h2go/home2.php?number=690

By: Lubavitcher

Lubavitcher — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 02:02:33 +0000

In reply to Withheld. There are tens of boys in the pictures with normal Lubavitch peyos. Why dwell on those two?

By: Withheld

Withheld — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 01:51:26 +0000

https://asktherav.com/9396-how-far-must-peyos-extend-down/

P.S. putting up a picture that shows a boy from the Heller household and one from the Twersky household is a bid deceiving since their family customs are different than most.

By: 770bochur

770bochur — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 01:37:47 +0000

This is the problem now? Really?

By: Nechama

Nechama — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 01:17:28 +0000

They are meant to be between midear to bottom of the ear. Shorter than that means you’re peyos reluctant. Longer than that means you need a haircut.
This is the appropriate length and always has been