Comments on: What Do You Even Tell Your Daughter?

By: BH issue is diminishing

BH issue is diminishing — Thu, 06 Nov 2025 02:11:55 +0000

BH this past year they put some boundaries and it was much more real simcha with less garbage.
Hopefully the vaad of SBH will draw inspiration from the partial success and find further ways to beautify our SBH with real yiddishe, chassidishe simchas yomtov.

By: HR

HR — Fri, 17 Oct 2025 13:01:27 +0000

In reply to Not true. Actually whats more painful is to see eidel 14/15/16 yr old girls we know put on lipstick and dress cool to leave the house at 2am to walk around.

By: Dy

Dy — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 22:16:44 +0000

Until separate events are arranged for the girls, meanwhile the girls should taught how abhorrent these encounters are and how to ward them off cold turkey with outright rejection! Clearly tznius helps send a message of royalty that dissuades low lives from approaching. However, the issue must be “addressed” to both the properly dressed and the not yet properly dressed!

By: crown heights

crown heights — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 21:06:54 +0000

I was shocked by the amount of boys and girls not from crown heights hanging out for long hours on the streets.
This is dangerous!
Rabbi Groner a”h said years ago about this problem that in such a situation he has no doubt that the rebbe will close the entire simchas beis hashoeva!
at the time he said that the problem was much smaller
many boys are also drinking mashke in farbrengen’s
it’s time to do something
the holy sbh can’t become a platform for the lowest people to get involved with our children boys and girls

By: Don’t go

Don’t go — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 19:34:18 +0000

Girls need their own, separate events. I’m surprised her school allows her attendance at this hefkeirus.

By: Guest

Guest — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 18:14:08 +0000

In reply to Wow. The issue is that however much we don't approve of certain behaviors, if it's not clearly against the law, police don't have a reason to get involved

By: Not true

Not true — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 14:32:12 +0000

In reply to Rivka B. I've seen them hit on a tznius girl before

By: Wow

Wow — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 09:38:22 +0000

It frustrates me to know that this is happening. It pains me to hear.

I think that such a boy should be taken a picture of and reported to the police.

By: Rivka B

Rivka B — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 07:50:26 +0000

Some of us allow our daughters to dress very provocative. Then we have complaints. I’ve yet to hear they approached eidel dressed girl. Additionally, if the girls ignore them they will stop. Its only after they engage with them it becomes a issue. Moshiach now!

By: CB

CB — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 07:41:09 +0000

Yes, Thank you to the organizers!! It was such a beautiful simchas bais hashoeva!! You felt the joy bgashmius and bruchnius!! Please keep this improvement going! It’s incredible to see what work went into this, it’s all worth it!
Thank you!

By: What can we do?

What can we do? — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:47:18 +0000

The organizers do a amazing event, and do all they can.
This is a community issue and multiple times a year, and I don’t know if there’s any way out.
What can the we do?

By: Avraham moshe g

Avraham moshe g — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 05:05:09 +0000

It’s not only simchas beis… bichlal when visitors come here they treet are neighborhood like a garbage can not respecting anything or anyone. enough is enough!

By: Avraham moshe g

Avraham moshe g — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 05:00:05 +0000

I think that unless these issues by simchas beis are actually handled… then it’s better to not make one anymore

By: We'll get there- together!!

We'll get there- together!! — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 03:03:18 +0000

I really understand you!
We need to keep improving the situation, and yes, the parents like you should keep thanking and demanding continued improvement and safety! For the children!!
Maybe there should be a center, where anyone could come with their concerns to!
And maybe there should be volunteers all over , that should be vigilant and approach the the crowd that clearly is defying the positive atmosphere, and demand they conform!!
ITS OUR COMMUNITY!! ITS THE REBBE’S SHECHUNA!!