Comments on: Make Tomchei Temimim Great Again!

By: Not exactly

Not exactly — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:08:05 +0000

This is an old line used by many Anash “ I miss my yeshiva days, I wish I could go back and spend time there”. Todays Bochurim have heard that line so many times that they have become numb to it. Not to mention, that many of the people who say it, would not go back to Yeshiva if given the opportunity. The human condition is that people miss good things they once had, and they conveniently forget any not-so-good experiences, and this applies to yeshiva as well. If systems as such are made that would be pressuring and the same problem would just start later, and due to resentment, no one would learn after getting married. I think it’s much better that bochurim have a positive relationship with learning as opposed to being fit into a “metzuyonim” box.

By: Mendel G

Mendel G — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 04:12:31 +0000

I agree very much. What would be the next steps to have this implemented?

By: To all yungermen who want improvement

To all yungermen who want improvement — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 14:35:46 +0000

So yungermen like you who now regret wasting time as a bochur, should be the ones to now inspire and speak to the next generation sharing your experiences and realizations. And if you manage to help the next generation, the time wasted will be transformed to kedusha.

By: Possible answer

Possible answer — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 07:55:43 +0000

In reply to your wrong. B"H Stop sending young boys to out of town mesivtahs. Keep them home under the parents loving care and watchful eye for as long as possible. They will not be emotionally burnt out by the time they reach zal, 770 and beyond.

By: Shlichus is a continuation of Tomchei Temimim

Shlichus is a continuation of Tomchei Temimim — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 05:55:22 +0000

In reply to trying to understand. Not only is it not a contradiction, it is a direct continuation. Only through the chinuch of hanochas atzmuso and total dedication to the will of Hashem, is one prepared to go on shlichus and make a dira betachtonim. Lubavitch doesn't view shluchim as "kiruv professionals" who take classes on how to make Yiddishkeit fun, but how to reach neshamos with the light of Chassidus. And that light of Chassidus is what the shluchim get in Tomchei Temimim.

By: Spot

Spot — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 05:20:11 +0000

This is perfect. Thanks for bringing up this important point.

By: trying to understand

trying to understand — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 04:59:16 +0000

i have a question as an outsider maybe i dont understad maybe somebody could answer it every yeshiva teaches how to learn torah yiras shomayim etc. when a person goes on in life his ruchniyusdige life is basicly the things he learned in yeshiva some stay in kollel and there life is more alike to yeshiva some are busy more with gashmiyus and try to kovaia itim sometimes more sometimes less but the values that they learned in yeshiva that stays their values adraba as the mind matures you see the values you learned in yeshiva in a different way you get more serious and you connect more to and you look up to those that stayed more connected and get nishpa from them etc but i dont understand how the lubavitcher chinuch could be matzliach since what you learn in yeshiva is not the focus later the focus is shlichus and askanus so two things happen one even in yeshiva you cant be fully in it since thats not your hemshech and second the things you learned in yeshiva nevers has time to mature and get serious since the focus is differentmy question is even more on a chabd chasidus that requires learning and yishuv hadas how is possible for the chinuch to be matzliach

By: How about a Point System

How about a Point System — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 04:52:04 +0000

As Oholei Torah instated. Or check in/out records on a server, accessible to Hanhala’s of graduate Yeshivas. Afterall the Rashab wanted them prepared for the real world.

By: Customer feeedback

Customer feeedback — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 02:55:11 +0000

Every good company learns from its customers how to improve. Students should be invited back when they are older to provide feedback for improvement.

By: Wait a second

Wait a second — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 02:46:32 +0000

In reply to your wrong. Are you really self-motivated, or is it only because you're going to lose your job and lose your house if you don't work? When you are a bucher, there's absolutely no accountability. You can do whatever you want, which is totally different from the real world. So really you do need to give them the tools to properly grow.

By: your wrong

your wrong — Sun, 15 Dec 2024 02:32:37 +0000

when is a bocher go to learn how to be self motivated. Do you think this will change lubavitch?