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		By: Moshe K		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65893</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Moshe K]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2025 23:45:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[the comment is not negating that sicha.... 
thats why the comment  says different people and situations and times... 
Factually 90% of students in Tomchai Tamimim ocean Pkwy were &quot;our own&quot; from CH... so that 
was not the reason.... We tend to  blame our problems on things that we feel have easy solutions as we dont want to fave the hard truths sometimes.... 
We have bigger issues that if resolved would solve may other issues... as the Rebbe said mant times: What happens in CH effects the world....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the comment is not negating that sicha&#8230;.<br />
thats why the comment  says different people and situations and times&#8230;<br />
Factually 90% of students in Tomchai Tamimim ocean Pkwy were &#8220;our own&#8221; from CH&#8230; so that<br />
was not the reason&#8230;. We tend to  blame our problems on things that we feel have easy solutions as we dont want to fave the hard truths sometimes&#8230;.<br />
We have bigger issues that if resolved would solve may other issues&#8230; as the Rebbe said mant times: What happens in CH effects the world&#8230;.</p>
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		By: What we know		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65868</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[What we know]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 20:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There really isn&#039;t clarity on the Rebbe&#039;s shita on limudei chol for girls. These horaos were given in yechidus, and a slight change in wording can make a major difference.

For example, there is certainly a difference between boys and girls: teaching boys cooking rules would undoubtedly be limudei chol, but for girls that would be fine. So why should language be different?

We should invest our energy in what we know for sure which is removing anti-Torah ideas from their studies of which there are unfortunately plenty.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There really isn&#8217;t clarity on the Rebbe&#8217;s shita on limudei chol for girls. These horaos were given in yechidus, and a slight change in wording can make a major difference.</p>
<p>For example, there is certainly a difference between boys and girls: teaching boys cooking rules would undoubtedly be limudei chol, but for girls that would be fine. So why should language be different?</p>
<p>We should invest our energy in what we know for sure which is removing anti-Torah ideas from their studies of which there are unfortunately plenty.</p>
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		By: The Rebbe said this explicitly!		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65867</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The Rebbe said this explicitly!]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 20:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65860&quot;&gt;A chosid&lt;/a&gt;.

In the sicha of 14 Tamuz 5717 the Rebbe said that the reason the Rebbeim allowed secular studies into tomchei temimim is likened to giving sick people medicine in a hospital. This is for the secular children, said the rebbe, who won&#039;t otherwise come to yeshiva. But a healthy person should stay far away from these studies!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65860">A chosid</a>.</p>
<p>In the sicha of 14 Tamuz 5717 the Rebbe said that the reason the Rebbeim allowed secular studies into tomchei temimim is likened to giving sick people medicine in a hospital. This is for the secular children, said the rebbe, who won&#8217;t otherwise come to yeshiva. But a healthy person should stay far away from these studies!</p>
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		By: Generally agree, but...		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65865</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Generally agree, but...]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 18:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[this article is written with a correct basis, that not learning limudei chol is of high priority by Rabboseinu Nesieinu, especially our Rebbe.

However, we always have to remember that לא מחשבותי מחשבותיכם, and the Rebbe has his ways of operating that don&#039;t necessarily fit into the box of what us שוכני בתי חומר may think the kavana haelyona is. 

there are various schools that the Rebbe himself not just gave brochos for, but instituted limudei chol, and though there was pushback from chassidim who wanted just limudei kodesh, the Rebbe specifically wanted these schools to have limudei chol. e.g. london, and most importantly, beis rivka in crown heights. this is a mosad founded by the Frierdiker Rebbe, where the Rebbe (through rabbi hodakov generally) had full control, and definitely meant for the girls of Lubavitch, and actually instituted school on sunday at a certain point throughout the years, as featured on anash.org a few month ago. nevertheless, for whatever reason, the decision was that it should be limudei chol curriculum on sunday. and when the hanhala asked about canceling limudei chol, the Rebbe brushed it off. ומי יהרהר אחר המלך

particularly concerning is the authors suggestion to start opening other schools, which is most definitely against the Rebbe&#039;s clear instructions. first of all, it is well known that the Rebbe does not allow hasagas gvul with mosdos and schools etc. (with exceptions, like oholei torah, but those are definitely the exception to the rule). secondly, the Rebbe does not want to have elitist societies in lubavitch, where some children are of &quot;higher status&quot; and go to a limudei kodesh school, and others &quot;lower status&quot;. there were various schools where the Rebbe encouraged having a limudei kodesh track, but within the same schools. (various chadorim that opened throughout the years, including those that the Rebbe gave brochos for after the fact, were opened against the Rebbe&#039;s holy wish, vedal).

so trying to change things within - and with respecting - the existing system and mosdos (chabad sheal asar, the original shliach etc) is positive, welcome, and encouraged, but unilateral actions are not in line with the Rebbe&#039;s instructions, and should be out of the question. ומסיימים בטוב]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this article is written with a correct basis, that not learning limudei chol is of high priority by Rabboseinu Nesieinu, especially our Rebbe.</p>
<p>However, we always have to remember that לא מחשבותי מחשבותיכם, and the Rebbe has his ways of operating that don&#8217;t necessarily fit into the box of what us שוכני בתי חומר may think the kavana haelyona is. </p>
<p>there are various schools that the Rebbe himself not just gave brochos for, but instituted limudei chol, and though there was pushback from chassidim who wanted just limudei kodesh, the Rebbe specifically wanted these schools to have limudei chol. e.g. london, and most importantly, beis rivka in crown heights. this is a mosad founded by the Frierdiker Rebbe, where the Rebbe (through rabbi hodakov generally) had full control, and definitely meant for the girls of Lubavitch, and actually instituted school on sunday at a certain point throughout the years, as featured on anash.org a few month ago. nevertheless, for whatever reason, the decision was that it should be limudei chol curriculum on sunday. and when the hanhala asked about canceling limudei chol, the Rebbe brushed it off. ומי יהרהר אחר המלך</p>
<p>particularly concerning is the authors suggestion to start opening other schools, which is most definitely against the Rebbe&#8217;s clear instructions. first of all, it is well known that the Rebbe does not allow hasagas gvul with mosdos and schools etc. (with exceptions, like oholei torah, but those are definitely the exception to the rule). secondly, the Rebbe does not want to have elitist societies in lubavitch, where some children are of &#8220;higher status&#8221; and go to a limudei kodesh school, and others &#8220;lower status&#8221;. there were various schools where the Rebbe encouraged having a limudei kodesh track, but within the same schools. (various chadorim that opened throughout the years, including those that the Rebbe gave brochos for after the fact, were opened against the Rebbe&#8217;s holy wish, vedal).</p>
<p>so trying to change things within &#8211; and with respecting &#8211; the existing system and mosdos (chabad sheal asar, the original shliach etc) is positive, welcome, and encouraged, but unilateral actions are not in line with the Rebbe&#8217;s instructions, and should be out of the question. ומסיימים בטוב</p>
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		By: And with videos nuch tzu dertzu		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65864</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[And with videos nuch tzu dertzu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 17:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some schools, including those thought of as highly chasidishe, also use secular videos in the secular studies curriculum, even more of a harmful influence.

About Pittsburgh, the Rebbe also wrote to Rabbi Posner early on, &quot;I do not know who gave them a heter to have secular studies.&quot; But also did not tell them outright to stop.

Bais Rivkah claims to have instructions from the Rebbe that involve limudei chol.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some schools, including those thought of as highly chasidishe, also use secular videos in the secular studies curriculum, even more of a harmful influence.</p>
<p>About Pittsburgh, the Rebbe also wrote to Rabbi Posner early on, &#8220;I do not know who gave them a heter to have secular studies.&#8221; But also did not tell them outright to stop.</p>
<p>Bais Rivkah claims to have instructions from the Rebbe that involve limudei chol.</p>
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		By: Aleph bais Gimmel		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65863</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Aleph bais Gimmel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 16:49:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65856&quot;&gt;Let&#039;s start with removing the goyishkeit&lt;/a&gt;.

The Rubashkin book was recently redone for young teens and has been made into a professional 7th and 8th curriculum]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65856">Let&#8217;s start with removing the goyishkeit</a>.</p>
<p>The Rubashkin book was recently redone for young teens and has been made into a professional 7th and 8th curriculum</p>
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		By: Sensitivity or purity?		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65861</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sensitivity or purity?]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 11:50:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sensitivity is generally a good trait but has some downsides (continuing the example one can have a sensitivity to healthy foods like fish or nuts not just unhealthy soda), perhaps the title could be something along the lines of  &quot;Why are most Lubavitcher girls’ schools still teaching limudei chol?&quot;.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sensitivity is generally a good trait but has some downsides (continuing the example one can have a sensitivity to healthy foods like fish or nuts not just unhealthy soda), perhaps the title could be something along the lines of  &#8220;Why are most Lubavitcher girls’ schools still teaching limudei chol?&#8221;.</p>
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		By: A chosid		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65860</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A chosid]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 10:30:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for the article. I think its a bit disingenuous to give your reasoning (interpretation) of why the Rebbe &quot;allowed&quot; something or what &quot;The Rebbe ment&quot;.

Tomchai Tomimim, With the Rashag, The fridiker Rebbes Son inlaw overseeing and actually running it had English classes in the afternoons, To just &quot;mach up&quot; that fact and/or 
 reasoning is inappropriate at best... How you want to teach, learn or have your children learn is fine but one should be careful in telling others &quot;what the Rebbe ment or wanted&quot; as we alos know everyone person and situation is different, and while the rebbe told someone one thing he may (did in many cases) tell another something else....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the article. I think its a bit disingenuous to give your reasoning (interpretation) of why the Rebbe &#8220;allowed&#8221; something or what &#8220;The Rebbe ment&#8221;.</p>
<p>Tomchai Tomimim, With the Rashag, The fridiker Rebbes Son inlaw overseeing and actually running it had English classes in the afternoons, To just &#8220;mach up&#8221; that fact and/or<br />
 reasoning is inappropriate at best&#8230; How you want to teach, learn or have your children learn is fine but one should be careful in telling others &#8220;what the Rebbe ment or wanted&#8221; as we alos know everyone person and situation is different, and while the rebbe told someone one thing he may (did in many cases) tell another something else&#8230;.</p>
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		By: It is worse than parents (care to) realize		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65859</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[It is worse than parents (care to) realize]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 06:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I was speaking with a student from BCM LA a few years back. They had a goyishe teacher (strike one), teaching &quot;current events&quot; - nothing remotely useful for education- (strike two)...

Now sit down before you read the next few lines...

She was using CNN as her news source! (Strike three).

And lastly - this was going on during the trump impeachment saga - anyone who defended trump was publicly scolded in class!

When one of the parents complained, their concerns went unaddressed. This went on for a FEW YEARS! In the &quot;chabad&quot; school in Los Angeles!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was speaking with a student from BCM LA a few years back. They had a goyishe teacher (strike one), teaching &#8220;current events&#8221; &#8211; nothing remotely useful for education- (strike two)&#8230;</p>
<p>Now sit down before you read the next few lines&#8230;</p>
<p>She was using CNN as her news source! (Strike three).</p>
<p>And lastly &#8211; this was going on during the trump impeachment saga &#8211; anyone who defended trump was publicly scolded in class!</p>
<p>When one of the parents complained, their concerns went unaddressed. This went on for a FEW YEARS! In the &#8220;chabad&#8221; school in Los Angeles!</p>
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		By: Let's start with removing the goyishkeit		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65856</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Let's start with removing the goyishkeit]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 01:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The curriculum that is used today in many schools contains a shocking number of things that go against sensitivities of any frum Jew. Yet, it has become &quot;normal&quot;. 

There is no good reason to use goyishe literature for teaching language. Today (unlike some decades ago) we have an abundance of quality materials that can be used. This myth as if reading secular literature will make more developed is exactly what the Rebbe was fighting against!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The curriculum that is used today in many schools contains a shocking number of things that go against sensitivities of any frum Jew. Yet, it has become &#8220;normal&#8221;. </p>
<p>There is no good reason to use goyishe literature for teaching language. Today (unlike some decades ago) we have an abundance of quality materials that can be used. This myth as if reading secular literature will make more developed is exactly what the Rebbe was fighting against!</p>
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		By: OC LA		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65855</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[OC LA]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 01:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ohel Chana has a Girsa track for most of the high school years available (hopefully soon for the whole high school set of years).

Girls learn Nigleh and Chassidus.

They learn BaChavrusa and have in depth Shiurim.

The Batsheva project is a great resource for that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ohel Chana has a Girsa track for most of the high school years available (hopefully soon for the whole high school set of years).</p>
<p>Girls learn Nigleh and Chassidus.</p>
<p>They learn BaChavrusa and have in depth Shiurim.</p>
<p>The Batsheva project is a great resource for that.</p>
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		By: Wow!		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65853</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wow!]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 00:02:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for writing this up and publicizing it! This is a real problem that has been going on for years! Lets hope that schools will take this and put it into action!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for writing this up and publicizing it! This is a real problem that has been going on for years! Lets hope that schools will take this and put it into action!</p>
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		By: BCM CH		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65852</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[BCM CH]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2025 22:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[BCM CH does this successfully and the girls know a LOT of chassidus and halacha.
If they can do it, it should not be hard to replicate]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BCM CH does this successfully and the girls know a LOT of chassidus and halacha.<br />
If they can do it, it should not be hard to replicate</p>
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		By: Dy		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/its-time-to-raise-sensitive-children/#comment-65851</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2025 22:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wow, so well said.  To strengthen the above I recommend seeing the Rebbe’s letter in Igros Kodesh vol. 22 page 221 where the Rebbe laments the sad state of affairs in jewish/chabad schools where the students - boys or girls view not only the holy and the secular studies as equal, but the secular takes a prominent place in the stress and emphasis that it&#039;s given with prizes etc.. 
This is on the part of not only the parents but also the teachers and even the principles. The Rebbe said there that this is something that&#039;s needs immediate rectification. 
See there the very sharp letter in full.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, so well said.  To strengthen the above I recommend seeing the Rebbe’s letter in Igros Kodesh vol. 22 page 221 where the Rebbe laments the sad state of affairs in jewish/chabad schools where the students &#8211; boys or girls view not only the holy and the secular studies as equal, but the secular takes a prominent place in the stress and emphasis that it&#8217;s given with prizes etc..<br />
This is on the part of not only the parents but also the teachers and even the principles. The Rebbe said there that this is something that&#8217;s needs immediate rectification.<br />
See there the very sharp letter in full.</p>
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