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		By: We havent handled it correctly		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[We havent handled it correctly]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[I think it was 30 years ago. Right after Gimmel Tammuz.
Nshei Chabad responded by putting huge signs with quotes from the Rebbe about it on doors of local businesses. They thought it was a matter of lack of knowledge, instead of addressing it one on one, one woman at a time, as it should have been done.
I think part of the issue was teaching that we keep tznius because the Rebbe wants it. This was a mistake. We do it because its part of our Mesorah, and THAT is why the Rebbe wants it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it was 30 years ago. Right after Gimmel Tammuz.<br />
Nshei Chabad responded by putting huge signs with quotes from the Rebbe about it on doors of local businesses. They thought it was a matter of lack of knowledge, instead of addressing it one on one, one woman at a time, as it should have been done.<br />
I think part of the issue was teaching that we keep tznius because the Rebbe wants it. This was a mistake. We do it because its part of our Mesorah, and THAT is why the Rebbe wants it.</p>
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		By: Which one		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Which one]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 21:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69181&quot;&gt;Wow&lt;/a&gt;.

What is the other article?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69181">Wow</a>.</p>
<p>What is the other article?</p>
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		By: Chana Raichik		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Chana Raichik]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 14:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Bh

Nicely written]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bh</p>
<p>Nicely written</p>
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		By: Everyone is invited to the Hadisbros ice cream party		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Everyone is invited to the Hadisbros ice cream party]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 13:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This article reminded me how grateful I am.
My Judaism and Hiskashrus is at its peak. like it will be when moshiach comes.

I used to be a good tznius girl but I was dead with my emotions and my thinking -my psychological side.
Hashem was very happy with me
And  I wasn’t happy with my connection to him.
Aseres Hadibros was his party not mine.
He enjoyed the ice cream and there was none for me. I wasn’t upset I knew it was good and Holy but inside I didn’t connect to it fully. Of course I wasn’t foolish I kept  everything 100% that wasnt an issue at all.

But Now 
When I learn Halacha I hear my sweet and Holy kings words and I have full obedience to them.

I also connect to each halacha with my thinking. My mind feels how right and understanding the King is .
My Tznius is not just a decree but I connect to the King with every part of my being ,my psychological (thinking ) mind sees the value of tznius too.

My emotions are full of happiness and joy and of course with awe and respect.

Chassidus taught me that moshiach is about to come and to get ready I can bring Hashem into my thinking  and my heart.
I have very chassidshe and tznius friends that haven’t found this gift .
They are even afraid to think because they think Hashem cant be found on the psychological level so it’s easier for them not to go there.
Their body bH gets tznius but their mind and heart aren’t tznius. They haven’t let the King in yet into that part of themselves.
This  is one of the reasons Im excited that moshiach is coming .

It will be a huge Aseres  hadibros ice cream party. 
Hashem in every corner and the most fun ever.
The Rebbe is so close to Hashem he knows exactly the balance and the needs of the Jew in front of him.
Sometimes the Rebbe explains yidishkeit  and talks about listening to the King with kabolas ol.
And Sometimes  he speaks psychologically because that’s what the person needs to feel comfortable to accept the Kings words and also so that the words enter the heart .
I  saw a letter in the Rebbes handwriting about  tznius that lack of tznius is because of lack of self esteem.

Thank you Hashem for a Rebbe that celebrates yidishkeit and celebrates us and knows what we each need and takes my inner world as precious to Hashem too!

When I was younger I had a very Holy mashpia but I didn’t really feel they cared about me and they couldn’t find Hashem. In my mind and my heart just in my behavior.
It was a good beginning but now it’s so much sweeter.
I don’t know what would or could have happened if I didn’t come to this level and find this mashpia.
 Maybe chas vesholom I could have had a yerida. 
(For sure it would be because I was searching for more but who need to go through that )



I’m starting to have the fun now. 😉 
Who wants to come to the party?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article reminded me how grateful I am.<br />
My Judaism and Hiskashrus is at its peak. like it will be when moshiach comes.</p>
<p>I used to be a good tznius girl but I was dead with my emotions and my thinking -my psychological side.<br />
Hashem was very happy with me<br />
And  I wasn’t happy with my connection to him.<br />
Aseres Hadibros was his party not mine.<br />
He enjoyed the ice cream and there was none for me. I wasn’t upset I knew it was good and Holy but inside I didn’t connect to it fully. Of course I wasn’t foolish I kept  everything 100% that wasnt an issue at all.</p>
<p>But Now<br />
When I learn Halacha I hear my sweet and Holy kings words and I have full obedience to them.</p>
<p>I also connect to each halacha with my thinking. My mind feels how right and understanding the King is .<br />
My Tznius is not just a decree but I connect to the King with every part of my being ,my psychological (thinking ) mind sees the value of tznius too.</p>
<p>My emotions are full of happiness and joy and of course with awe and respect.</p>
<p>Chassidus taught me that moshiach is about to come and to get ready I can bring Hashem into my thinking  and my heart.<br />
I have very chassidshe and tznius friends that haven’t found this gift .<br />
They are even afraid to think because they think Hashem cant be found on the psychological level so it’s easier for them not to go there.<br />
Their body bH gets tznius but their mind and heart aren’t tznius. They haven’t let the King in yet into that part of themselves.<br />
This  is one of the reasons Im excited that moshiach is coming .</p>
<p>It will be a huge Aseres  hadibros ice cream party.<br />
Hashem in every corner and the most fun ever.<br />
The Rebbe is so close to Hashem he knows exactly the balance and the needs of the Jew in front of him.<br />
Sometimes the Rebbe explains yidishkeit  and talks about listening to the King with kabolas ol.<br />
And Sometimes  he speaks psychologically because that’s what the person needs to feel comfortable to accept the Kings words and also so that the words enter the heart .<br />
I  saw a letter in the Rebbes handwriting about  tznius that lack of tznius is because of lack of self esteem.</p>
<p>Thank you Hashem for a Rebbe that celebrates yidishkeit and celebrates us and knows what we each need and takes my inner world as precious to Hashem too!</p>
<p>When I was younger I had a very Holy mashpia but I didn’t really feel they cared about me and they couldn’t find Hashem. In my mind and my heart just in my behavior.<br />
It was a good beginning but now it’s so much sweeter.<br />
I don’t know what would or could have happened if I didn’t come to this level and find this mashpia.<br />
 Maybe chas vesholom I could have had a yerida.<br />
(For sure it would be because I was searching for more but who need to go through that )</p>
<p>I’m starting to have the fun now. 😉<br />
Who wants to come to the party?</p>
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		By: False distinction		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[False distinction]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 11:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69176&quot;&gt;False equivalence&lt;/a&gt;.

Tznius hasn&#039;t been weaponized. Women and girls ceased observing Tznius 20 years ago.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69176">False equivalence</a>.</p>
<p>Tznius hasn&#8217;t been weaponized. Women and girls ceased observing Tznius 20 years ago.</p>
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		By: Wow		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wow]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 05:21:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[That was needed! Thank you!
Really horrified by the other article...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was needed! Thank you!<br />
Really horrified by the other article&#8230;</p>
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		By: Yakov Kirschenbaum		</title>
		<link>https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69179</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Yakov Kirschenbaum]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 02:38:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[BH

Very nice article. Very carefully written. The author did not hide behind anonymity.  Kol hakavod.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BH</p>
<p>Very nice article. Very carefully written. The author did not hide behind anonymity.  Kol hakavod.</p>
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		By: Pointing out halacha isn't weaponizing		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pointing out halacha isn't weaponizing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 02:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69176&quot;&gt;False equivalence&lt;/a&gt;.

Not everything that we don&#039;t like is an attack. It&#039;s ridiculous and futile to respond to anything that you don&#039;t like as it being &quot;hurtful&quot; or &quot;offensive.&quot; That&#039;s the woke approach, but it doesn&#039;t hold.

There are real standards of right and wrong in halacha (as in life in general) - even if it&#039;s uncomfortable for us. Of course, we need to influence with love and sensitivity. But ultimately there are in life some uncomfortable truths that we will need to face, and institutions (schools, shuls, and communities) are obligated to uphold them.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://anash.org/has-therapy-replaced-torah-in-the-tznius-conversation/#comment-69176">False equivalence</a>.</p>
<p>Not everything that we don&#8217;t like is an attack. It&#8217;s ridiculous and futile to respond to anything that you don&#8217;t like as it being &#8220;hurtful&#8221; or &#8220;offensive.&#8221; That&#8217;s the woke approach, but it doesn&#8217;t hold.</p>
<p>There are real standards of right and wrong in halacha (as in life in general) &#8211; even if it&#8217;s uncomfortable for us. Of course, we need to influence with love and sensitivity. But ultimately there are in life some uncomfortable truths that we will need to face, and institutions (schools, shuls, and communities) are obligated to uphold them.</p>
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		By: False equivalence		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[False equivalence]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 01:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[None of the halachos/ mitzvos mentioned are consistently weaponized (against girls) the way tznius is- As something that defines their worth and objectifies them in a way that is opposite of Torah and humanity. Derech eretz kadma la Torah.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>None of the halachos/ mitzvos mentioned are consistently weaponized (against girls) the way tznius is- As something that defines their worth and objectifies them in a way that is opposite of Torah and humanity. Derech eretz kadma la Torah.</p>
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		By: The proof is in the pudding		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[The proof is in the pudding]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 21:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Just look at the end result. Most often, those who reframe tzniyus  as &quot;My personal business,&quot; and &quot;Don&#039;t judge me,&quot; are also lacking in yiras shomayim demonstrated in their lack of care in other areas of shmiras hamitzvos. They are the first to sieze any kulah they can be it in kashrus, shmiras Shabbos or kedushas habayis. I know this sounds horribly judgemental; but now that the Pandoras box has been opened with public articles, we just need to look at the &quot;lifestyles&quot; of the authors to know where their well-written opinions will lead.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just look at the end result. Most often, those who reframe tzniyus  as &#8220;My personal business,&#8221; and &#8220;Don&#8217;t judge me,&#8221; are also lacking in yiras shomayim demonstrated in their lack of care in other areas of shmiras hamitzvos. They are the first to sieze any kulah they can be it in kashrus, shmiras Shabbos or kedushas habayis. I know this sounds horribly judgemental; but now that the Pandoras box has been opened with public articles, we just need to look at the &#8220;lifestyles&#8221; of the authors to know where their well-written opinions will lead.</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 19:17:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[excellent!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>excellent!!</p>
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		By: Thank you		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Thank you]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 19:14:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is what anash.org is for.  Sane, honest, loyal to torah as is taught by our rabeiyim.  Thank you.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is what anash.org is for.  Sane, honest, loyal to torah as is taught by our rabeiyim.  Thank you.</p>
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		By: amazing!!		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[amazing!!]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 17:53:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[i LOVE this article. sensitively and wisely written!
thank you!!!
YES! YES! and more YES!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i LOVE this article. sensitively and wisely written!<br />
thank you!!!<br />
YES! YES! and more YES!</p>
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		By: Deeper than psychology		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Deeper than psychology]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 17:15:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One concept in particular is relevant. Not because it is psychological, but because, without this fundamental, there is a lack of &quot;psyche&quot;. The emphasis is self respect.  With this, the self  cannot become trade goods for imagined rewards.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One concept in particular is relevant. Not because it is psychological, but because, without this fundamental, there is a lack of &#8220;psyche&#8221;. The emphasis is self respect.  With this, the self  cannot become trade goods for imagined rewards.</p>
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		By: Like the "isms"		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Like the "isms"]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 17:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some people are obsessed with self to the point where they can&#039;t see anything beyond it. And if you dare question or say anything against it, you are merciless and a traitor of the worst kind. 
It&#039;s like what you read in books about the height of socialism being the salvation and if you dared speak against it you were shunned and worse.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some people are obsessed with self to the point where they can&#8217;t see anything beyond it. And if you dare question or say anything against it, you are merciless and a traitor of the worst kind.<br />
It&#8217;s like what you read in books about the height of socialism being the salvation and if you dared speak against it you were shunned and worse.</p>
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		By: Taharas hamishpacha		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Taharas hamishpacha]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 16:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This therapy mindset can completely overturn taharas hamishpacha specifically, agreed!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This therapy mindset can completely overturn taharas hamishpacha specifically, agreed!</p>
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